Monday, January 12, 2009

I solicit your attention to my planet of ecstasy

Hi friends!! I am Pranav Pagaria.A Chartered Accountant student. I am born and brought up in Indore. 19 years of age.

Onto Academics: I have done my schooling from Sri Sathya Sai Vidhya Vihar and currently pursuing C.A and m jz thru with my B.com…m doin fine with my academic achievements. I have tasted a bit of success too. BUT just a bit of it.
I personally believe that academics iz not the perfect mirror to judge a person. It is just a minute parameter. There are other determinants which for me are much more imperative in contrast to academics.
But!! We can’t deny to the proven fact that ‘brain iz better then brawn’...
So, I look unto academics with all deference and will surely try to prove my metal in future…

My Personal: What do I say abt myself.?? The research iz still onnnn..
Honestly I don't know if I have my own dream, but I do know that I can help others fulfill theirs…I am good to all, better to some and best to few f them...
The ones to whom I am the best are very rare. The reason being I jz believe in being everything for someone rather then being something to every one…I care the most for my near and dear ones…A witty persona by nature, I naturally create humor. But!! A sensible one. I am a bit impulsive and sometimes react unreasonably. I tag this trait of mine as ‘mera chhota gussa,jo bhut jaldi aata hai nd utni hi jaldi vapas chala jata hai’…
I am optimistic dude,coz for me the glass is alwaz half filled and not half empty….
Not many people know bt I am damm emotional… I guess guys aren’t supposed to be that emotional n ol ,bt I am. cant help it !!
If you just know me then I bet u don’t know me…coz to know me you got to be the one whom I consider the special one…I naturally wear different facets for different relations. I am not similar in my behavior to all..(I guess this iz vry awful and so I am trying to improve an inch day after day)
I personally believe ‘when I am at my best, I have the supremacy to change sorrows to delight..Doesnt matter who the person iz and whateva may be the extent of his/her misery, I bet I can make his/her heart smile again…perhaps I act as a wonder drug when I am at my best ’…
This iz wat I could figure out about myself by now..as I said earlier ‘research iz still onnn’…I’l definately let u know the future developments….

What made me start writing articles?? : I feel like-We think too much and feel too little. We plan too much but we do little. But these little feelings and thez little plans if materialized ,can do a great deal. Also I feel More than machinery we need humanity. More than cleverness we need kindness and gentleness. Without these qualities, life will be violent and all will be lost. We need to understand the true sense of every relation and adore every facets of life…through my articles I would like to bring the true sense nd true feelings behind every topic into picture. If I could influence feelings n thinking of even a single person i’l acknowledge my achievement….
A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle..i will feel honoured if my articles can enlighten any ones world.
Off course there iz always a source of inspiration behind every object that we undertake…I do have it!! Itz the inner feeling of my conscience that proactivated me to come up with something that iz worth to be thought of..



My perception about life: for me life iz fun n life iz wat the best I can do today n life iz all about justifying our conscience that what we r doin iz the beat we could have ever done…I am obssessed with this saying ‘Nothing succeeds like success’
After you die, nothing you ever owned matters , and everything you ever did does. So I alwaz try to make the most of it…It's what someone does that they like doing. It's what someone does that they like remembering. It's the thinking of things you may never do, and the doing of things you might never have thought. It's the road ahead, and the road behind. It's the first step, and the last — and every one in between... because they all make up THE GOOD LIFE.

My family: It’s a delightful feeling to introduce you to ma sweet family…coz I call a HOUSE as HOME just becoz of my family….We are 4 members in our family..
The first one iz my dad.( I call him pa)..lets meet him.!!C.A Virendra Pagaria.This is how he is known to everyone. A practicing Chartered Accountant by Profession. But for me he iz something much much more…
My inspiration,my ideal,my friend,my teacher,my strength….
Wateva I am today, most of it iz just becoz of him!! Wat else should I say..sometimes words arnt enough to xpress your feeling..this iz wat I am experiencing rite nw!!
Next iz my mum. Mrs Sandhya Pagaria..i bet she iz the best manager this world has ever seen coz ‘she manages the most unmanageable person,offcourse ME’ kudos to her!!
I share all my sorrows n delight with her…nd I must tell u I trouble her lik hell.. BUT she still loves me..yup!! she loves me like hell..this iz wat we can call as the enormity of love and effection that a mother carries. I call her ‘mumma’ the reason being it sounds vry sweet. even maa iz sweet but I will stick to mumma…
Third one iz my younger bro…Jinesh Pagaria.he iz in 9th..literally speaking without him I would have felt very unaccompained.. I really enjoy his company..he brings out the childish attitude of fine..i must tell u I love acting like a child..we both fight a load and we love each other even more..sometimes I tend to misuse his goodness by convencing him to do some of my work n sometimes to make coffee,shake n ol for me..And u knw he does all thez things for me..he iz so sweet!! I have heard him sayin ‘Papa i’l also do C.A’..but chuck it off!! We don’t take him tht seriously for the time being atleast ..

And the fourth one u knw very well…Pagaria. Pranav Pagaria. (as in bond. James bond)..lol. I am the worst of all.the one who creates all the mess back home. I told u earlier as well ‘mumma mujhse bahut pareshan hai’..but itz fun being the same way..




The Girl I met

The Girl I Met

We come across many people in our lives….. let me introduce u to a girl whom I met yesterday …

Here she came with an elusive intensity that glorified the surrounding…it seems as if sun has emanated to announce the dawn showering the weeny rays and enlightening our hearts…gosh!!! her appearance was a pleasure to see….

Then she came a bit closer and I could see her glittery hairs all cuddled into a red band matching her dress. some of the left loose hair splits were sprinkling over her face..so blessed are thoz hair splits to feel the captivating touch of her face..

She came still nearer and spoke to me….the words from her mouth were coated with hell amount of sweetness. in my mind I called her sweetu...it felt as if even insulting words from her mouth will shower blessings on me…her tone…her voice…wow!! I felt like this is the voice that I would love to listen throughout my life with all deference…

I dared twittering into her eyes…peeping inn was a mesmerizing xperience…i could see a glorious sea in her eyes..full of charm and asking me to forget the rest of the world and enter the pretty and cute world of her sweet looking blackish eyes…

I some how moved my eyes away from hers for the fear of being drowned in sweet aroma of her oceanic eyes……

We had some chat and I cracked a joke…
There she smiled!!!
The innocence in her smile was like a little child smiling her heart out only to bring happiness of the faces of people around..
I felt like doin woogly woogly woosh with her chuuby cheecks…bt offcourse I couldn’t have dared to do so..


Fortunately I had a chance to strike a chord with her. Though it was a cute little conversation abt our economy I was spellbound having discovered her awareness abt the so called “not my forte types topic” She certainly was well versed with the business jargons….and she was bestowed with an intelligent mind…as they say “beauty with brains”…

Her dressing sense waz none less then a perfect bliss to watch….
Though she wore western outfits,but the dress wasn’t revealing or proactive but extremely graceful which only addeded more delight to her charismatic personality…

She waz looking as fresh as erly morning dew…as soothing as a silky touch on your face.. as lovely as the blues of sky…as sweet as a jelly mounting over a pudding..

Her flaunting frills perfected her look…it was a pleasure to admire her beauty…
She went away in minutes leaving behind long life memories for me…..

I wished if i could be deserving enough to meet her again…and I wished if I could do anything for her some time.. i jzzz wishhhh!!!


Tuesday, January 6, 2009

True Friendship

True Friendship

Numerous times we stumble upon this utterance “Friendship”
But how many of us are in fact conscious about the true wisdom of this priceless word...????
Who is a friend???
A person with whom we spend majority of our time??
A person whom we consider as prime??
A person with whom we shout loud??
A person with whom we freak out??
A person with whom we share our thoughts & feelings??
A person with whom we share our academic evils??
A person who makes us happy??
A person with whom we get crazy??

Aforementioned phrases will certainly appeal to majority of us and we will agree that a person who has some or all of these traits, we call them as our friends…

But unquestionably we overlook the true sense of friendship…

We often tend to associate friendship with happiness…
We often tend to deem every person who is nice to us as our friend…
We often tend to neglect the basic essence of friendship...i.e. TRUST...
We often tend to confuse self interest of the other person with CARE...
We often tend to perplex infatuation with LOVE...
We often assume that our partners in cheerfulness will be the partners in wretchedness...

In point of fact we all live in a delusion that all the persons whom we consider as our friends are really so!!!

But!!!! True Friendship isnt what we actually perceive it to be...

There is a thin line of disparity between the “so-called friends” & the “true friends”...

True friends, as the name insinuate is a person who is a luster in our dim life…
The one whom we can trust for every thing.. the one with whom life seems to be a better place to live in..the one who gives a reason to smile in the times of sorrow. the one who links his heart with ours.…..the one who perceives our tribulations as his..the one who n-joys our success.. the one who makes us move onn in the times of hardship!!!!

A true friend says::-

Don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow u….
Don’t walk behind me, I may not lead u..
Just walk besides me and be my friend!!!!!

We have discussed the surface level inference of true friendship. Now lets get into the oceanic depth of true friendship and ponder upon facets of this kinship!!!

TRUE FRIENDSHIP IZ:

A blessing of god

A true friend is an edifice on which foundation of a jubilant and successful life is led….a blessing in a true sense signifies a true friends disposition….a true friend is a friend in need. the one who enjoys our success. the one who keeps us refrain from all the evils. the one who gives a shoulder to cry..the ones who gives motivation to try. the one who increases happiness manifolds…the one who lightens adversity by dividing and sharing the load…
not every one is so lucky to get such a friend as it is not a relation which can be bought, it certainly is the blessing of god…for a true friend it goes like:


I thank god for being so kind,
Without true friend my world would have been blind,
I don’t have the words to express my feeling,
Having a true friend iz surely a blessing….





A little heaven on earth

If you think that world means nothing, think again!! You might mean the world to someone else….
A true friend is the one for whom we mean a lot. our happiness makes them smile and our desolation makes them frown…
The thread of feelings that binds this divine relation makes it a genuine heart felt friendship….the way they care for each other,the way they admire each other makes them feel astounding. they tend to make a little heaven of happiness on this earthy atmosphere…true friend makes u realize that there is some one who cares for u all the time..things may go tough at times, but a true friend smoothens all the roughs and makes it fine….

I woke up at night,
With a sense of fright…
A nightmare it was,
That took my breathe off..
And suddenly I smiled,
As my true friends thought came in ma mind…
I said to myself,
However dreadful the things may turn
And whether its day or nite
I have a true friend by my side
Who is my strength to turn the sorrows to delight..



No Barter System

A give and take system iz referred to as barter system…a true friend iz the one who goes just contrary to this system….radically, a true friend just believes in giving without any expectation of inward benefit… it’s a blissful deal which leads to eternal satisfaction which one gets by helping as a true friend…..as they say “in true friendship the more u give,the more u gain”…


Sometime my mind asks why??
Why I care for u ??
Where my selfishness goes when it comes to u??
Why my happiness iz with yours??
Why I always want to see u happy??
THAN
My heart answered!!!
“simply because u r my true friend”



A Perpetual bond


Friendship iz all about linking the cords between two hearts that creates a never ending bond…a bond of trust,loyality and affection which will end only when the sun starts rising from the west…as they say “Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget. for a true friend underneath holds spot on:



I thought of tomorrow,
And I donno wats gona be my sorrow…
I may come across many pals,
I may hang our with many girls….
My destiny may play a horrific game,
Doesn’t matter whether I go UK or Ukraine…
All things may change in my life,
But our friendship will always be alive..
Years may fly,
Tears may dry,
But my friendship with u will never die…



A true friend thus iz a real gem!!! We are not that fortunate to have god with us on this earth…but I guess god iz the one who sends true friends to help us lead our lives in the best possible way!!! We just have to realize who they are and just make them a part of our life…

People talk about angels. I have never seen any. BUT I bet an angel cant be better than my true friends
... it just cant be…!!!

Here we are!!!
This is what a true friend is all about….
Its has been rightly said:

life is not a bed of roses,
bt it wasn’t supposed to be a bed wholly constructed of thorns either…

Yes Guys!!!


life gives us all feasible opportunities to tune in with the best people around….
We just need to find them, respect them and keep them as a treasure…

If world gives me one reason to be frown, I am proud to say my true friends will give me hundred reasons to smile..
It is been said that it takes half our life to find true friends and half of it keeping them.. I am lucky to have spent less then half my life finding my true friends & wish to spend the rest keeping the relation intact...